Should I read into his answer?
Q. My bf asked me the oh so popular question "Who would you save in a burning fire?" He told me to choose one of my three siblings. I had a very hard time and kept telling him I'd either save them all or die togpther with them because I wouldn't be ...
A. 18 August 2011: I agree with Abella's assessment. Your boyfriend has a son, so I must assume he's around the same age as you are? This is one of those silly 'test' questions that one expects much younger people (eg: adolescents) to ask each other, in history ... (read in full...)
I want a relationship with this guy and I want my mother to accept it!
Q. Hi, I am 21 years old guy, just came out yesterday to my mother that I am bisexual and she didn`t over reacted but the thing is, she did not convinced that I am actually capable to love also guys and enjoy sexual intercourse. She thinks that thi...
A. 18 August 2011: You are 21 years old...an adult. Carry on with your life..date whomever you want. But...do not push this issue on your Mother. She loves you very much and it sounds like she has 'accepted' your bisexuality. However, she still has hopes that this ... (read in full...)
How do I fix this?
Q. My boyfriends family dont have that much money (well they didnt before but do now) and my family have been always been comfortable lets say. I am use to giving and receiving big gifts at birthdays. My boyfriend has a very good job and big savings so ...
A. 18 August 2011: Great advice from below. Just adding my 2 cents here. I would say your boyfriend over-reacted and certainly not the reaction you expected..I am sure. Going by the age you have stated..it's not like you are both young 'kids' here. He had the choice ... (read in full...)
Is there a nice way to tell a guy that I'm not interested in dating anymore?
Q. I have been sort of dating this guy for a bit over a month, I'm physically attracted to him but that's it. I've been away for Xmas break. He texts me every day. He seems to really like me but I don't feel the same way. Is there an easy way to let ...
A. 19 July 2011: Dating is a selection process...a way of finding the one that suits 'you'. So you have to do what makes you happy. Ending a relationship is part of the dating game but it is never easy. Men like to hear the news in a upfront, honest way. My s... (read in full...)
He pretended to be young, when really he is a 44 year old man! What should I do?
Q. hi ... i'm a girl 18 ... i met some guy on on internet on a 3D game ..he told me his name is Paul and he is 18 ... i loved him ...he shown me some pic for young boy pretending its him.. after being his gf ... in some night he told me he is Ahmed ...
A. 15 July 2011: I think the rationale of calling him a predator was because by the information you gave us Aunts, this fellow had all the clear markings of one. I would go as far as calling him a cyberpath: Check this link:
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He pretended to be young, when really he is a 44 year old man! What should I do?
Q. hi ... i'm a girl 18 ... i met some guy on on internet on a 3D game ..he told me his name is Paul and he is 18 ... i loved him ...he shown me some pic for young boy pretending its him.. after being his gf ... in some night he told me he is Ahmed ...
A. 15 July 2011: Seems like you have been well advised by the below Aunts! Great comments. Just had to add my two cents. This whole scenario you are experiencing is disturbing. Sexual predators pretend to love notoriously. This is how they operate. He used ... (read in full...)
I told him I wanted to wait but he keeps trying it on! What should I do?
Q. Im aged 13-15, and i've been going out with my boyfriend for about 3 months,i'm still a virgin and i told my boyfriend i wanted to wait! but recently we were kissing and stuff and i had a short skirt on and he tried it on? Immediately i got up and s...
A. 15 July 2011: You have recieved wonderful advice from all the Aunts here. Now read the below comments over, and please take their well-thought out advice to heart and good luck, in all your future dating endeavors!
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I hate myself for being so brutal to her in the past...how can I move on?
Q. I was in a relationship with a girl for like six years and in June 2009 , all of sudden I dumped her saying that she was hell of a talkative and belong to lower class than my family. She was begging and doing all sort of desperate things not let me ...
A. 14 July 2011: Well, plainly she loves you because she is with you..right? But, it appears she has not forgiven you or is experiencing difficulty fully 'trusting' you. You should get out there and make a good life with her, rebuild the trust through loving ... (read in full...)
I told him I wanted to wait but he keeps trying it on! What should I do?
Q. Im aged 13-15, and i've been going out with my boyfriend for about 3 months,i'm still a virgin and i told my boyfriend i wanted to wait! but recently we were kissing and stuff and i had a short skirt on and he tried it on? Immediately i got up and s...
A. 14 July 2011: Your body and who you share it with, is a huge decision. I am going to tell you to never allow a boy to pressure you into having sex, when you are not ready. The physical and emotional consequences are devastating. Unwanted pregnancies, stds are 2 ... (read in full...)
B/f just vanishes on me and then has reasons, but I hate it!
Q. hey.. i don't know if its a really big problem but its all i think about all day, so here goes. i have been in a relationship for 4 years and 5 months now. and right now i'm only 19. i have been with the same guy since i started dating. i really ...
A. 14 July 2011: Clearly this is a huge problem, if you think about it all day. Stop fighting with him and stressing yourself out. Think rationally and reassess this relationship and really define if it's making you happy, anymore. We can't tell you what he's ... (read in full...)
Is Cybersex/Sexting, with someone other than your spouse, cheating?
Q. Is Cybersex/Sexting, with someone other than your spouse, cheating. This is past dirty messages and includes videos of them selves being passed back and forth. I have seen for myself. He says I'm overacting since he's not physically cheating. i ...
A. 14 July 2011: You are not over-reacting. Some couples do this with each other's consent. (Each to their own) But, if he engaged in these actions knowing the hurt it caused you, or he hid these cybersex behaviours from you, then he knew his actions, was a 'slap ... (read in full...)
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